People move
abroad for lots of reasons – work, love, necessity, choice. I hadn’t really thought much about it before,
but we fall into the last category. It
was Vicki at www.vegemitevix.com who
highlighted this difference in a recent interview with me. Vicki is from New Zealand and writes about
her life as an Expat living in the UK.
She’s currently running a series of guest post/interviews from other
Expats living in different countries giving their “Moving Stories” – here’s
mine Moving Stories - 10 Moving for Good . Have a look at the others – it’s interesting
all the different reasons for moving and ways of coping as a result.
We chose to
move abroad in search of a better life for our growing family and the decision
was not taken lightly. It’s something we
planned for many years and when we moved, we intended the move to be for good. I wonder if the decision of “Moving for Good”
has actually affected how well we have adapted and coped with the move. Maybe it’s given us an advantage in that we didn’t
have any feelings of resentment from the start (as you may have if you’ve moved
for work, a partner or because you had to for some reason). Have we tried harder to make it work? Does choosing to live in France mean we are
more likely to choose to live there forever?
Over at Windmill Feilds on her Expat Blog Hop, Rosalind is discussing the question “Will you, Could
you, Do you want to stay where you are forever?”, so I thought it might be interesting
to join in.
Will I Stay
in France forever?
Forever is
a long time. I don’t know if I will stay
in France forever, there’s a big world out there and I’ve seen hardly any of
it. For the foreseeable future I’m
here. The children are settled and my
youngest is only four, so I’m likely to at least see her through school before
making the decision to maybe move on.
But you never know...
Can I stay
in France forever?
Yes I think
I could stay in France forever. There
are things that frustrate me about living here, but I am generally happy and I
think the good things outweigh the bad.
Do I want
to stay in France forever?
No, I don’t
think so. As I said before, there’s so
many other countries to explore. I could
see us retiring and having a home in France and a home somewhere hotter where
we can go in the winter. I think it very
much depends on where my children settle.
It’s likely that at least some of them will settle in France and then I
will probably want to be around to help them out when they need us. If none of our children settle here then I doubt we would feel the need to have a house here in the future, but who knows....
So, are we more likely to live in France forever because we chose to live here? Possibly, but I think the answer, for us at least, lies in the fact that we chose to Move Abroad for good, rather than Move to France for good. France was not our first choice, Greece was and it was only because of schooling difficulties for our children that we changed our mind. So maybe in our case we should change the questions to Will I, Can I, Do I want to stay abroad forever? The answer to all those questions is categorically yes....probably!
